So think back on where you were on December 31st, 2019. Maybe walking around downtown, drinking with revelers. At a house party, celebrating with friends. Or maybe with your special someone, ringing in 2020 on television. Well I’m willing to bet that none of you anticipated what we have experienced over the past five months! All in all, I hope you’re doing well as we ride out this pandemic along with the commotion around protests (totally cool) and riots-looting (not cool) in the area. I never, ever imagined 2020 would be this tumultuous but here we are.

Like many of you, I’ve been sheltering in place or at home for most of the past three months due to new laws and curfews. I hope you’ve learned a couple of new dishes to cook up because let’s face it, very few of us have gone out to eat in months! My last two visits (March, pre-pandemic) were to Hawkers Asian Street Fare in Chapel Hill along with Lady Luck in Raleigh which were unfortunate to open up when they did. But thankfully, we were able to do some take-out and delivery during the Covid-19 pandemic and we’ve recently acquired the right to dine in restaurants during Phase II of North Carolina’s shelter in place order.

So what have we seen in the Triangle dining scene over the past three months? Well I’d say a little bit of everything. Tough decisions had to be made, some restaurants closed entirely, some stayed open for take-out while others expanded into other services like groceries and produce. They’ve adjusted their menus to be simpler, offering up more comfort food and eats that fare better as take-out. Overall I can say that the restaurants in the area have shown a lot creativity and resiliency to keep their doors open during the pandemic. And then given the protests around the George Floyd murder out in Minneapolis, we reached another new and challenging era with local curfews being instated around North Carolina. But like a veteran boxer taking some huge body-shots, still the restaurants persisted.

And what’s amazing that even while they have been beaten up during the pandemic and knocked about with the curfew, local Triangle restaurant owners remain remarkably passionate about social justice and their communities. Even given property damage during the rioting and looting, most are still standing up for justice and accepting of the collateral damage that has severely impacted their businesses, wow. We all know that restaurants and hospitality professionals are all about serving their community and I can think of no better example than what I’ve seen over the past month or so. And we’ve also had many local citizens helping out with the clean-up in downtown areas.

Unfortunately, there have been some restaurants that have been permanently impacted over the past four months: High Horse, Chuck’s Burgers, Oakwood Cafe, Trophy Tap & Table, Virgil’s Original Taqueria, and Cameron Bar & Grill are all gone for good. My best guess is that there will be more permanent closings but it will be hard to track that news given how restaurants usually shut down (quietly).

Thankfully during these tumultuous times, we still see some positive news. Just like watching green shoots pop up over the burnt Australian landscape after this year’s wildfires. We have relief funds being created to support out of work hospitality personnel, offers to deliver free groceries and meals to people who have lost their jobs and new businesses like the Durham Food Hall, Lawrence Barbecue, Flying Mayan and Que Chula Tacos trying to spin up their concepts over the past month during these crises. Restaurants continue to move from take-out and delivery to the new normal of distanced dining and more during Phase 2 of our Covid-19 recovery plans. Please, please, please, check the social feeds of local restaurants to see where they stand in terms of their food offerings.

From my perspective, I’ve withheld on most of my blogging, reviews and social media given the seriousness of the situation. While I do believe in offering my readers the simple objectivity of dining at our local restaurants, most of them are under severe pressure making it unfair for me to provide any criticism in my reviews during these challenging times. They are all doing an awesome job keeping up with these hurdles so I will just try to stay out of their way and support them. And I hope that you will join me in supporting these local restaurants until we pull out of this mess. Tip well, be a patient customer and we will all get through this together. And let’s hope the second half of 2020 plays out better than the first six months, peace out!

“I don’t know when we will re-open…” the woman sputtered out over the phone. There was a brief silence, some muffled tears and then she hung up. It was the fall of 2009 and I had called up to check on my lunch favorite, Korean Grill Buffet up on Capital Boulevard. During my last attempt to visit, a “Closed Due to Remodeling” sign was hung up at the front door so we waited a couple of weeks before trying again for lunch. But I figured it would be wise to call beforehand and there you go. Korean Grill Buffet, a wonderful, family run restaurant that offered All You Can Eat (AYCE) Korean barbeque and Korean favorites like japchae and bulkogi was probably no more.

And I was angry, probably hungry too, but how could a great restaurant like KGB (my affectionate abbreviation) not survive? How could people not appreciate this wonderfully delicious Korean food at a total bargain price? And that’s when I decided I needed to do something, I needed to start food blogging and help tell the story for these great restaurants in the Triangle that were NOT getting credit and exposure to the general dining population.

And that’s the origins of how 10 years ago, I jumped into the food blogging scene for the Triangle. Starting out as Foodalicious Follies, I moved from off the cuff Yelp reviews to a format where I could tell a fuller story and offer up higher quality pictures to support restaurants I cared for. I can tell you that over the past 10 years of blogging and social media that a LOT has changed in the Triangle food scene. Mostly good, some not so good but that’s part of life and moving forward. With all the exposure this region gets showing up on Top 10 lists and articles in national publications, the dining and restaurant scene has really taken off along with all the people moving in!

But it wasn’t always that way. Back in 2009, the region was just entering the national recession along with the rest of the country. And all those cranes you see in the area?! There wasn’t much of that heavyweight building construction, either! Smaller developments like the Bloomsbury Estates in Raleigh would literally give you a Mazda Miata if you bought a condominium! What a difference 3,500+ days can mean and it got me a bit nostalgic about what has changed since I started blogging 10 years ago and what you may have missed…

• I remember when City Plaza was boarded up with scaffolding from end to end. You could barely walk through the square as a pedestrian but wow, what an amazing city renovation which was unveiled in 2009! All those nights I’ve spent at City Plaza for a variety of events has made all that work appreciated.
• The impressive DPAC opened in late 2008 and I was a Broadway theater season subscriber early on. The DPAC’s arrival heralded all the amazing development in downtown Durham with regards to restaurants, bars and more. I never imagined it would have SO much impact on the area.

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• Being served by Chef Ashley Christensen when she headed the kitchen at the old Enoteca Vin. She would hustle out eggs benedicts to brunch customers and she hasn’t stopped hustling after opening up her own restaurants starting with Pooles Diner! She’s been a major reason why the food scene has changed so much in the area but y’all know that.
• The loss of Rocky Top Hospitality’s Red Room, Bogarts and Hi 5! This trio of restaurants anchored 500 Glenwood and you would grab dinner, get a wrist-band and then bounce between three different parties and dance floors at each restaurant. So much fun!
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• Discovering Chef Mike Lee who owned Sono in downtown Raleigh, one of the few bright spots on the food scene for me. Watching him leave for Durham was tough but I’m really happy at how well he’s done in bringing Asian eats to the Bull City with his M Restaurants group.
• The start of the Yelp community in the Triangle and becoming the first Yelp Elite in the NC Triangle. If you missed it, the original Triangle Yelp Community Manager Christina G threw the best parties and you’d mark them off in the calendar and get your costume/gear ready.
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• Meeting Chef Cheetie and her husband Paul after they opened up Garland Restaurant on Martin Street. What started as a take-out window offering casual Asian-fusion cuisine is now a restaurant with a James Beard nominated chef! So happy to see these two do so well on the food and music scene.
• Soo Cafe opening up on Hillsborough Street and dishing out the area’s first Korean fried chicken, oh yeah! I remember my first bite (amazing) and while we have more options for KFC in the area now, the original is still running up on Capital Boulevard.
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• Watching the cocktail scene blow up in the area with Foundation and C. Grace! Mixologist Matt Bettinger really was the man behind the cocktail program at C. Grace and has continued his success at SideBar in Cary, very well-deserved.
• The continued development of the Rigsbee Avenue corridor was all started by Fullsteam Brewery and Sean Lilly Wilson. He took a chance on this street and supported the Pop the Cap movement legalizing higher ABV beers. Over the years we’ve added Surf Club, Motorco, Hutchins Garage, Boxcar and much more. Such a cool little neighborhood to hang out in.

We’ve seen so many changes in the region when it’s come to food and drink and I’m glad to have been a part of the evolution. When I first arrived in North Carolina in 2005, downtown Durham was still a place people would avoid and everyone drank Bud Light and bad beer as their primary beverage of choice. Finding decent NY pizza and Asian food was really difficult, causing me to drive all over the Triangle in search of decent eats; many miles were covered. And here we are now with more great food choices then we know what to do with, not bad!

So you may be asking, what’s changed in the area that’s not so good?! I think that as we’ve seen the food scene boom here locally, we’ve also seen a boom in promotional food content, influencers and infomercials (social media, posts, magazine articles) that just don’t tell the whole story.

And unfortunately, not all of this sponsored content (or collabs as they call it) whether it’s in the form of free food, monetary payment or offering marketing services is being called out as such to the public. The FTC calls this issue “truth in advertising”.  I just don’t believe that sponsored content or collaborations will really reflect the experience you will have as a diner which bothers me. I mean, who doesn’t like free food or being paid to pitch a restaurant? But does it really reflect what your experience will be like when you dine there? Oh yeah, and in no way does an Instagram photo tell you if food is really tasty or if a restaurant is really good, shocker.

So an honest opinion (both good and bad) where money and prices are taken into account is crucial to help you find the best eats in the area. Constructive feedback is also important for restaurants to keep improving their product and services. I know as well as anybody else that accepting free food can influence your thoughts about a restaurant and handcuffs your opinions and words. A hat tip to the N&O’s food critic Greg Cox who keeps things real and the review bar, high. While I may not always agree with his restaurant opinions, I certainly respect his honesty, anonymity and perspective.

I’m not the most nostalgic person, but I’ve really enjoyed chronicling the progress and evolution of the food scene here in the NC Triangle over the past 10 years. It’s been a lot of fun! And I still think it’s important that people can get an honest and unbiased opinion, even more so given what’s changed in the food scene.  So if you’ve been following me for 10 years, 10 months or just 10 days, thank you so much! I’m honored that you’re willing to spend some time with me in your busy day and I hope I can bring you some news, insights and entertainment around the best food and drink in the area.

My pledge to you is to always keep it real and honest, you deserve that amount of transparency and I’ll continue to do my best to meet that expectation. One of my co-workers once told me that I was his “secret weapon” to keep up to date on the local food scene and surprise his daughter with hidden gems and great restaurants. And that’s fine by me, I’m hoping to be YOUR secret weapon in finding the best food in the Triangle in the years to come.

Peace out,
Ron at NC Triangle Dining

PS: There is an AYCE Korean barbeque down in Charlotte (Let’s Meat) and I’m dying to try it!